2012年1月21日星期六

放下

原来, 放下是一种解脱。

矛盾,矛盾。

为何我这么迟才觉悟呢?

新年我没回家,但却有一连串的计划,为自己还有为自己在乎的人们。有好多同事都问我为何没回家呢。。。。我自己也不懂怎么解释,结果搞得我心思思的。

跟大伙儿分享:

最近,Facebook,在护理界里 都很盛传这部短片:

有几点本人很想分享的:
A comfortable pair (shoes) are the most important equipment.

Saying you are a nurse and being a nurse are very two different things....(I couldn't agree more).
Your very first medication (in nursing) would be a dose of reality and your second would be a dose of humility.

There will be days you will cry on your way to work, there will be days you cry on your way home (I cried almost every day!)
All of those days will pass (erm, I also believe that!)

You will either love night shift or hate night shift, and somewhere along the line, you probably will change your mind, night shift will eat anything (haha, still okay for me)

Manage your time well, it will be the difference between walking with feels like 20miles and feels like 50 miles (True, prioritization and collation of work is very very very important)

Wash your hand (OMG, we do like CRAZY!)

Some events are milestones, like seeing the first baby born, or your first coat, or the death of the patient. (Last office, is the term saying that nurses offer our last care and respect to the deceased)

Nurses train residents (Haha, I am still "floating" in my career, but I do agree that experienced nurses do teach nurses as well as residents a lots of specialty related medical care).

Doctors can do what they do without you, you can't do what you do without each other (Couldn't agree more)

You will go from saving a life one minute to cleaning up an incontinence patient the next (Symbolic interactionism of a nurse)

Patient will teach you more than you teach them (True enough, Patient is the one who teaches US, more than the one holding bachelor, master or PhD, is the patients who provide learning opportunities to US, letting us to "practice" on them!)

Check, recheck and recheck (Okay, things will definitely happen when nurses violate this rule, or being not careful during the checking, my experiences tell)

You will learn to love sticking people and take pride in being able to set up an IV when others didn't make it possible.

They will be a patient, now and again who will remind you why you chose to be a nurse, embrace those moment. (Ya, patient's recovery will lead to our job satisfaction, we will be the 2nd most happy person followed by the family in seeing our patient recover).

*_*

2012年1月4日星期三

2012

我把愿给许入心坎,

希望从2012起, 我的回忆里会有比较多笑的画面。

2011年12月24日星期六

2011 年:你会是我不堪的过去。

2011 是我最难堪的一年,还有7天你将会成为所有地球人的过去。

这一年,真的挨了很多的人生经验。颓废了一整年,对原来热血澎湃的志愿,严重地失去了平衡点, 最叫我难过死了。

2011,我痛苦的21岁。我要你尽快挥之别去!!!

2011年12月13日星期二

Singapore Oldest Person: Sister Teresa Hsu


The supercentenarian was Singapore's oldest person.

According to an announcement on the Heart to Heart website, Hsu's welfare service, Hsu died peacefully at her home on 7 December. She was cremated on the same day,"

Hsu wanted to "depart quietly and peacefully" and left instructions not to make any announcement of her death in the news media, or perform any ceremonies that would "cause disturbance and inconvenience to others", said the notice.

The notice was signed by her co-worker Sharana Rao.

"She has further instructed that no claim be made of her ash by whosoever," it added.

Hsu, a trained nurse, devoted her entire life to helping the less fortunate.

Born in a tiny village in the Guangdong province of China, Hsu traveled to various countries, such as Hong Kong and Paraguay, to help others, before settling down in Singapore.

Here, she served first as an unsalaried matron at Kwong Wai Shiu Hospital for about three years before opening an old folks home, called the "Home for the Aged Sick".

After retirement, she turned her attention to her welfare service, Heart to Heart, where she reached out to needy elderly folks and families.

Yahoo! Singapore last featured Hsu in our Inspiring People column for her lifelong work with the less fortunate. Read more about her life story here.


From Yahoo Singapore News


人世间,值得学习的对象之一。还记得,我还是第三年护理学生的时候, 修读老年护理学时,才有机会认识到Sister 许哲。 http://www.sinchew.com.my/node/230060?tid=2


她是一名护士, 一名令人尊敬的白衣天使。

人生いろんなことがあるよ。

人生いろんなことがあるよ。


所以,每分,每秒,都要好好地生活。

2011年12月9日星期五

昏迷不醒

好久没有连续八天都一直工作了。

今天难得的一天假,却是一直昏迷不醒,现在才清醒。

这样的情形就是我部分的生活写照。

2011年12月3日星期六

忘记

有些事情,不是直接了当地说能忘记,就真的能完全放得下。

那种抽心的痛还是隐隐约约地刺进心坎里头。

借用,《那些年 我们一起追的女孩》里头的经典句子来形容我对生的无奈。


































这过渡期,真的是一个很煎熬的日子,动力时常都会被那件事儿呆滞。

我唯有每天都祈祷,每天都自我説服:别让那一次的过失,而放弃了自己原来的热诚。

还记得我以前在我的护理final year project 做的recognising depression helps suicide prevention: 忧郁的人,他们的心情,我特能明白, 因为我也是如此。

在此,真心地为全天下忧郁的人们祈祷,我们都会熬过去的!!!

2011年11月25日星期五

不要放弃

咬紧牙根, 咬紧牙根。
不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃! 不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃! 不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!不要放弃!x100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

这四个字可不是盖的!要做到那四个字,是要多么大的毅力啊!

2011年11月21日星期一

刘庸: 用明天成功的快乐,去治疗你昨天失败的伤痛。 而别把昨天失败的伤痛,带到今天,造成明天再一次的失败。

刘庸:

用明天成功的快乐,去治疗你昨天失败的伤痛。
而别把昨天失败的伤痛,带到今天,造成明天再一次的失败。


心智上,我又长大一些了。

2011年11月1日星期二

重新收拾--心情

无论多么地后悔,难过, 懊恼。。。

事情已是事实,过去了就必须放下。

对不起,错在我的失误,我提不起认错的勇气。

这些日子,让我妈,我哥操心了, 实在是对不起。还有,谢谢愿意聆听我与明白我的朋友,给了我无数的安慰与站起来的力量。

重新收拾--心情。因为这件事,我终于了解到,工作只是帮助我成长的一部分,我需要的是一个更开阔的视野。

但,那件事, 永远都会埋藏在自己的心中,会是无奈,会是刺痛,更会是一个警惕。